For years, synthetic hair was my go-to hairstyle. Here are 10 things I learnt.
Box braids, twists, cornrows with extensions, you name it, I wore it. I loved the neatness, the volume, and the styles I could achieve with synthetic hair. But along the way, I realized something was not right. My scalp constantly felt sore, my edges thinned out, and my natural hair always seemed weak and broken after every take-down. Three months ago, I decided to quit synthetic hair altogether and embrace my natural 4C hair fully. I won’t lie, it has been both a struggle and a blessing. I have faced real challenges, but I have also discovered some of the most rewarding wins of my hair journey so far. I’m sharing my personal experience here, not as the ultimate truth, but as my story, in case someone else out there is struggling with the same decision.
(Disclaimer: I am not a professional stylist or trichologist. I am just a woman with 4C, high-porosity, fine hair who is on a hair-healing journey, experimenting and learning about natural hair maintenance and growth. These are my personal experiences and lessons so far.)
The Struggles of Letting Go of Synthetic Hair
Quitting synthetic hair was not an easy decision. There are struggles I still face and moments when I almost run back to braids or weaves.
I still admire box braids done with synthetic hair. They are undeniably cute, and I love how they look. But I remind myself that synthetic hair constantly ruined my strands. The styles were too tight, whether because I wanted a sleek finish or because salonists ignored my pain. I grew up hearing that “beauty hurts,” so I stayed quiet even when it pulled on my scalp. Today, I know better, and I choose not to go through that pain anymore.
Natural hair is not for the lazy. This is one of the biggest lessons. The moment I slack on my routine, it shows. Dryness, tangles, and breakage creep in. With 4C hair, consistency is everything. I must moisturize, seal, and style my hair properly; otherwise, the difference between me and an unkempt head would only be that I’m clean. It requires work, but I’m learning discipline and care along the way.
Yes, natural hair is expensive. At least if you want healthy, thriving hair. Natural, pure, organic products don’t come cheap. I had to adjust my budget to prioritize oils, conditioners, and treatments that actually feed my hair. Also, the expense is more now because, unlike when I used synthetic raids or weaves, now I have to style my natural hair more often. But once you commit, your hair responds so well. And honestly, the investment is worth it because chemical-laden products only create setbacks.
The Wins of My Natural Hair Journey
As much as I’ve faced struggles, the wins far outweigh them. Embracing my natural hair has opened my eyes to so much beauty and freedom I never knew before.
I have learned more in 3 months than in 3 decades. From understanding my 4C texture, to learning how my hair reacts to moisture and dryness, to experimenting with routines, it’s been eye-opening. I’m learning what products work for me, how shrinkage is normal, and how patience is key.
Natural hair equals freedom. Nothing compares to the lightness of my head without heavy extensions pulling on it. I sleep better, I don’t feel constant tension, and I feel naturally beautiful. There’s no pressure, no soreness, just me and my coils.
Haircare eventually becomes easier. Unlike with extensions, I can wash and style more often, keeping my scalp clean and my hair fresh. No more holding onto dry, dirty braids just to get my money’s worth. Clean hair equals healthy hair, and I’ve noticed real growth since switching.
It teaches you more ways to style your hair. With natural hair, you are almost forced to get creative. Whether it’s a wash-and-go, a puff, a bun, or twists, you learn simple, go-to styles that suit your lifestyle. I now have DIY options that make me feel empowered.
The Mindset Shift Changes Everything
More than products or styles, what shocked me most was the mindset change.
I realized I was the only one who thought natural hair wouldn’t suit me. People around me noticed my switch, but no one hated it. In fact, I get compliments now, and I rock my coils boldly.
I feel free from societal pressure. For years, I believed I had to use extensions to belong or look beautiful. But after three months of wearing my short natural hair, I wonder why I ever carried that burden. I no longer feel defined by how long or sleek my hair looks.
Confidence grows. My hair is not perfect, but it’s mine. It thrives better now, it shines more, and I feel more connected to my roots. Natural hair has taught me patience, resilience, and self-acceptance.
My Final Thoughts
Quitting synthetic hair has not been smooth. I still admire braids, I spend more money on products, and I know I must always stay disciplined with my routine. But the wins, freedom, confidence, growth, and creativity are priceless.
So, must every natural-haired woman quit synthetic hair? Not necessarily. This is my journey, and my choices are shaped by my struggles and wins. For me, the benefits outweigh the struggles, and I’m committed to seeing how far my natural 4C hair can go without the constant weight of synthetic extensions.
What about you? Would you consider quitting synthetic hair, or does it still serve you well? The beauty of this journey is that each of us gets to decide for ourselves.